So I'm really struggling right now with not wanting to hurt this guy's feelings... he is totally into me & I am just not feelin' it.. AT ALL! On the other hand, I know that If I string him along and don't say anything It will hurt him more in the long run. What do you say? Help me ladies!!
Maybe if I wore my hat like this he would leave me alone!...
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Hope everybody has a fabulous weekend!
From past experience you need to tell him NOW! You're right, it will definitely be worse the longer you wait. Telling him will be unpleasant, whether it's now or later...but if you wait it causes you undo stress in the meantime and makes it worse for him. So, the sooner the better.
ReplyDeleteGood luck!
I agree. It may be uncomfortable and unpleasant but sooner rather than later!
ReplyDeleteMe too. Be gentle and direct. Hope you are having a wonderful weekend!
ReplyDeleteLike the two ladies before me said, better do it now.
ReplyDeleteDoesn't it make you feel worse because you know how it feels and you now have to make somebody else feel that bad? At least that is how it worked for me a couple of times. I felt so incredibly sorry for the guy that I almost didn't say anything! Not good.
Good luck!
I agree. Get it over with and you'll feel better.
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